Through personal discovery I've found the importance of gratitude....and the power of apology. I find it all comes down to being self-aware and taking personal responsibility for yourself. If someone has shown you a kindness or helped you identify something in yourself than be grateful and express that gratitude. If you've wronged someone or made a mistake apologize for it. The only thing you can control in this chaotic world is how you respond to it. This world is full of negativity and selfish people. It's a very good thing to attempt to break that mold.